Telling about my problems
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The problem is, mcs has a hold of himself too often. I guess it’s called stress release.
Hi Major, (hold of himself)? Zoloft , In and out , up and down and yes what a way to go – Way better then zipping in Zoloft but hey knock yourself up, maybe you can get Poopie tohump you and then call you General pretty soon? Between Black Dog, Poopie and Major Zoloft, you guys are the best salesman for not taking meds. But maybe a new class of drugs witll come along and make people with normal sounding names and ideas come back here..
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you’re not you’re fucked up. ;^) Poopie,
Tell everyone here how you got started in the business. :;777* -Steve !stop! copyin/pastin y’all’s lil flirtation on this board and consider the serious thread you’re postin it on. START YOUR OWN SUBJECT AND THREADS ! you guys might need your privacy, anyway. ~tanya (a true believer in everyone’s right to my opinion)
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YUM , don’t tell me you have a sister like yu? It can’t be that good can it? ~no, i have no sisters… parental selection in conjunction with my own was refused by all female chiles… the competition woulda been debilitatin’ !
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Why can’t you learn how to post properly? ~posting properly has never been one of my goals in life. so… tuff guy, why doncha gimme a "postin 101" lesson as opposed to a passive-aggressive "would you please tell me how to post?" response soliciting question. plus.. i’m real friggin dumb. (shaving accident)
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wow… they gotta rule book ! Reply Click Reply to write a response to the current newsgroup message. When writing a reply, you can choose to reply to the newsgroup, reply in e-mail to the author of the original message, or both. (yanno? i think i’m just gonna click "reply" from now on… i’m savin your post and replyin from there… this could be the start of sumthin truly romantic.) <heart palpitatin xoxoxoxooxxooxox ~~~tanya {{{{HUGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGSSSSSSSSSSSS}}}} and i love you til death do us part. you go first. (i’m considerate like that)
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Why can’t you learn how to post properly? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I just wish I didn’t wonder what people were thinking so much. ~~ya wouldn’t wonder what people were thinkin about ya if ya realized how seldom they do. and ya can’t change the past, it’s already happened, and ya can’t predict the future, you’ll be wrong, you can’t project what others are thinking, you’ll be wrong. so basically….. ya think everybody’s thinkin about ya, YER gonna be the one to invent the time machine, recreate your life. ("oh, what if, oh, i wish i hadda, oh darn it, sucked for me, so of course everyone else thinks i suck, becaue i am ‘OMNIPOTENT’)which is a task scientific scholars since the beginning of time when a "past" was even conscienable, PLUS you can read minds and now yer predicting the future. DIAGNOSIS: you are conceited, ostentatious, selfish, self-absorbed, and ta top it off… YOU ARE A VICTIM? puh-leeeeeeze… ya see? i don’t give a rat’s ass what people think about me, subsequently i don’t care if you like what i gotta say or not. pity parties abhor me, it’s a simple ploy for MORE attention for you to complain about. You think people think you’re stupid? (yer kiddin)…. WELL NO SHIT, SHERLOCK ! McFLY!!!!!!! McFLY !!!!!! ANYBODY HOME???? will you get a girlfriend? i can answer that, actually. yeah. you will. the bigger question is… would ya WANT SOMEBODY THAT TOLERATES YOUR BEHAVIOR AND BLAMES ON A DISORDER??? good god, i’m OCD, most of us are in here… so what. be obsessive and compulsive and be done with it and quitchur whinin. now i will prescribe your treatment? sure… sure ya wanna know… #1) stop thinkin about crap that is more counterproductive than a fish salesman at gay bar, #2)GETCHUR HEAD OUTTA YER ASS, GETCHUR MIND ON TODAY, THIS MINUTE, THIS SECOND. There ain’t nothin else. period. now is ALL we got and even IT’s a surprise every second.. ya want your life mapped out? you sucha control freak you think you got the power to change the course of life? of nature? your path? #3) own up to the REAL problem.. which only you can answer, but i’m guessin getta hobby besides yourself, mabye take up bowling… well, maybe not.. a gutter ball in public could put ya over tha edge. or come spend a week with me at my tattoo shop. (after 13 years in the business, i never asked one tattoo or piercing collector if they wondered what people thought of them.) think about THAT ! p.s. yer counselor couldn’t pick you outta a midget parade. don’t flatter yerself. GUAR-AN-TEED you were dust in her wind. here’s a test… you have a choice how you view my previous comments. you can choose several options, the 2 most obvious being "hurtful and painful and that bitch just doesn’t understand".. or.. "hey, maybe this is a positive thing…. lemme sit down and look at this".. (clue: everything in life does not have to be hurtful.. you have a choice as to how you feel. you can be a victim, maintain your plight you’ve created… or change your focus. (i’m bettin i’m not in the running for his new girlfriend…. just an educated guess) <smile ~~tanya YUM , don’t tell me you have a sister like yu? It can’t be that good can it?
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The what if’s are a bitch but at some point (usually happens naturally) they slowly fade away with time. Everyone wishes their lives were better even to someone who’s life you view as great. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I am not sure what to say but I guess I will try. One problem I have and has been getting worse is that I am anaylzing things too much. I am constantly thinking about past events and wondering what I should have done differently or done better, like wishing my life was more enjoyable or wishing I had studied different things in college etc. When I am talking on the phone sometimes I am wondering what the other person thinks sometimes, and when I have visited with a friend or met someone new and departed, I also wonder what they are thinking about me. Sometimes even I think people think I am stupid and things like that. I feel like I should be outgoing more to people but I am always thinking about things so it is hard to talk to people at times, I wish I could just let loose but I can’t. I just wish I didn’t wonder what people were thinking so much. Also at some points I have anxious things happening like wondering when I will get a girlfriend, worrying about transferring colleges, and things like worrying about what will happen after graduating and wondering if I will be able to manage my life. I also have some compulsive-disorder tendencies like arranging things or having to do things The other day I talked to a counsellor about this and I will see a psychologist very soon about this. Actually when I left the counsellor I was actually wondering what she was thinking about me…. Anyone else have these kinds of things happening? At times it is bothersome but I know I will be able to get out of it.
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The what if’s are a bitch but at some point (usually happens naturally) they slowly fade away with time. Everyone wishes their lives were better even to someone who’s life you view as great. I view you as great Kevin, the boys want to know if you do the swing thing
with your dingle anymore? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –
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I view you as great Kevin, the boys want to know if you do the swing thing with your dingle anymore?
Get a hold of yourself Steve and release those boys you’ve got locked in your basement ; )
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I view you as great Kevin, the boys want to know if you do the swing thing with your dingle anymore? Get a hold of yourself Steve and release those boys you’ve got locked in your basement ; )
Kevin that fruity juice your drinking is maybe helping you dream in color again?
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I view you as great Kevin, the boys want to know if you do the swing thing with your dingle anymore? Get a hold of yourself Steve and release those boys you’ve got locked in your basement ; ) Kevin that fruity juice your drinking is maybe helping you dream in color again?
you’re not you’re fucked up. ;^)
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I view you as great Kevin, the boys want to know if you do the swing thing with your dingle anymore? Get a hold of yourself Steve and release those boys you’ve got locked in your basement ; ) Kevin that fruity juice your drinking is maybe helping you dream in color again? you’re not you’re fucked up. ;^) Poopie,
Tell everyone here how you got started in the business. :;777* -Steve
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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I view you as great Kevin, the boys want to know if you do the swing thing with your dingle anymore? Get a hold of yourself Steve and release those boys you’ve got locked in your basement ; ) Kevin that fruity juice your drinking is maybe helping you dream in color again? you’re not you’re fucked up. ;^) Poopie, Tell everyone here how you got started in the business. :;777* -Steve
Well that answers that question, you’re fucked up. ;^)
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Well that answers that question, you’re fucked up. ;^)
And do tell is that why you are posting to these newsgroups. Richard
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I just wish I didn’t wonder what people were thinking so much. ~~ya wouldn’t wonder what people were thinkin about ya if ya realized how seldom they do. and ya can’t change the past, it’s already happened, and ya can’t predict the future, you’ll be wrong, you can’t project what others are thinking, you’ll be wrong. so basically….. ya think everybody’s thinkin about ya, YER gonna be the one to invent the time machine, recreate your life. ("oh, what if, oh, i wish i hadda, oh darn it, sucked for me, so of course everyone else thinks i suck, becaue i am ‘OMNIPOTENT’)which is a task scientific scholars since the beginning of time when a "past" was even conscienable, PLUS you can read minds and now yer predicting the future. DIAGNOSIS: you are conceited, ostentatious, selfish, self-absorbed, and ta top it off… YOU ARE A VICTIM? puh-leeeeeeze… ya see? i don’t give a rat’s ass what people think about me, subsequently i don’t care if you like what i gotta say or not. pity parties abhor me, it’s a simple ploy for MORE attention for you to complain about. You think people think you’re stupid? (yer kiddin)…. WELL NO SHIT, SHERLOCK ! McFLY!!!!!!! McFLY !!!!!! ANYBODY HOME???? will you get a girlfriend? i can answer that, actually. yeah. you will. the bigger question is… would ya WANT SOMEBODY THAT TOLERATES YOUR BEHAVIOR AND BLAMES ON A DISORDER??? good god, i’m OCD, most of us are in here… so what. be obsessive and compulsive and be done with it and quitchur whinin. now i will prescribe your treatment? sure… sure ya wanna know… #1) stop thinkin about crap that is more counterproductive than a fish salesman at gay bar, #2)GETCHUR HEAD OUTTA YER ASS, GETCHUR MIND ON TODAY, THIS MINUTE, THIS SECOND. There ain’t nothin else. period. now is ALL we got and even IT’s a surprise every second.. ya want your life mapped out? you sucha control freak you think you got the power to change the course of life? of nature? your path? #3) own up to the REAL problem.. which only you can answer, but i’m guessin getta hobby besides yourself, mabye take up bowling… well, maybe not.. a gutter ball in public could put ya over tha edge. or come spend a week with me at my tattoo shop. (after 13 years in the business, i never asked one tattoo or piercing collector if they wondered what people thought of them.) think about THAT ! p.s. yer counselor couldn’t pick you outta a midget parade. don’t flatter yerself. GUAR-AN-TEED you were dust in her wind. here’s a test… you have a choice how you view my previous comments. you can choose several options, the 2 most obvious being "hurtful and painful and that bitch just doesn’t understand".. or.. "hey, maybe this is a positive thing…. lemme sit down and look at this".. (clue: everything in life does not have to be hurtful.. you have a choice as to how you feel. you can be a victim, maintain your plight you’ve created… or change your focus. (i’m bettin i’m not in the running for his new girlfriend…. just an educated guess) <smile ~~tanya
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The problem is, mcs has a hold of himself too often. I guess it’s called stress release. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I view you as great Kevin, the boys want to know if you do the swing thing with your dingle anymore? Get a hold of yourself Steve and release those boys you’ve got locked in your basement ; )
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You are very normal. I’m (historically) pretty self confident but I’ve also had a lot of moments of self doubt. Ever read Robert Frost’s poem, The Road Not Taken? We all look back and say what if? One thing I learned some time ago is never to say "If I only…." I can’t change things and there is no reason to expend energy on things I can’t change. If you really obsess with this to the point where it truly interferes with your life, then you may need help. What you are doing is mind reading. It is common. nevertheless it is irrational. I’d suggest you buy the book "Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy." It is a great self help book that I believe will be very useful to you. Best wishes, The Major – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I am not sure what to say but I guess I will try. One problem I have and has been getting worse is that I am anaylzing things too much. I am constantly thinking about past events and wondering what I should have done differently or done better, like wishing my life was more enjoyable or wishing I had studied different things in college etc. When I am talking on the phone sometimes I am wondering what the other person thinks sometimes, and when I have visited with a friend or met someone new and departed, I also wonder what they are thinking about me. Sometimes even I think people think I am stupid and things like that. I feel like I should be outgoing more to people but I am always thinking about things so it is hard to talk to people at times, I wish I could just let loose but I can’t. I just wish I didn’t wonder what people were thinking so much. Also at some points I have anxious things happening like wondering when I will get a girlfriend, worrying about transferring colleges, and things like worrying about what will happen after graduating and wondering if I will be able to manage my life. I also have some compulsive-disorder tendencies like arranging things or having to do things The other day I talked to a counsellor about this and I will see a psychologist very soon about this. Actually when I left the counsellor I was actually wondering what she was thinking about me…. Anyone else have these kinds of things happening? At times it is bothersome but I know I will be able to get out of it.
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"Subnbelle" thinkin about crap that is more counterproductive than a fish salesman at
gay bar,
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ya see? i don’t give a rat’s ass what people think about me, subsequently i don’t care if you like what i gotta say or not. pity parties abhor me, it’s a simple ploy for MORE attention for you to complain about. You think people think you’re stupid? (yer kiddin)….
ya, you yer, you’re, your just pick one and stick with it YOU fake. or is it "YA fake"? guess it depends who YER trying to be at the moment. YOU’RE, I mean YER, trying way too hard. YOUR, whoops, YER brain must hurt trying to keep it all straight.
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Well that answers that question, you’re fucked up. ;^) And do tell is that why you are posting to these newsgroups. Richard
Because I’m the whole package, not to mention I’m all that and more. ;^)
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I just wish I didn’t wonder what people were thinking so much. ~~ya wouldn’t wonder what people were thinkin about ya if ya realized how seldom they do. Well I know what they are thinking: One wrong move and WHAMO and ya can’t change the past, it’s already happened, and ya can’t predict the future, you’ll be wrong, you can’t project what others are thinking, you’ll be wrong. so basically…..
You can’t change the past but you can change your reaction to it. The problem is not that people are stuck, they never tried to even go there! and understand and EVOLVE ( remember the word Volvo?) ya think everybody’s thinkin about ya, YER gonna be the one to invent the time machine, recreate your life. ("oh, what if, oh, i wish i hadda, oh darn it, sucked for me, so of course everyone else thinks i suck, becaue i am ‘OMNIPOTENT’)which is a task scientific scholars since the beginning of time when a "past" was even conscienable, PLUS you can read minds and now yer predicting the future.
you see now you got it…. I think DIAGNOSIS: you are conceited, ostentatious, selfish, self-absorbed, and ta top it off… YOU ARE A VICTIM? puh-leeeeeeze…
Yes I was told that by my Shrink who is probably on some fat farm and Poopie. ya see? i don’t give a rat’s ass what people think about me, subsequently i don’t care if you like what i gotta say or not. pity parties abhor me, it’s a simple ploy for MORE attention for you to complain about. You think people think you’re stupid? (yer kiddin)…. WELL NO SHIT, SHERLOCK ! McFLY!!!!!!! McFLY !!!!!! ANYBODY HOME????
Honey its much more then rationalizing. thats part of it, if the chemical part is not kicking in the other part that is needed won’t make you whole. Like manic depressive, anxiety , personalization , problems. We need to have the connections to make us equal and whole. will you get a girlfriend? i can answer that, actually. yeah. you will.
Your talking to me? How many far away girlfriends do I need? If your around now, and not a tubby , and you don’t smoke , come to pappa. But if your not talking to me , ok, Are you staring again? I got it your my therapist! the bigger question is… would ya WANT SOMEBODY THAT TOLERATES YOUR BEHAVIOR AND BLAMES ON A DISORDER??? good god, i’m OCD, most of us are in here… so what. be obsessive and compulsive and be done with it and quitchur whinin.
quitchur whinin…. Who is whinning winny? now i will prescribe your treatment? sure… sure ya wanna know… #1) stop thinkin about crap that is more counterproductive than a fish salesman at gay bar, #2)
you have all the connections in order, but you just might have problem of lectric impulses.Try rubbing your feet on a thick carpet and watch you connections improve with light shock therapy. GETCHUR HEAD OUTTA YER ASS, GETCHUR MIND ON TODAY, THIS MINUTE, THIS – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – SECOND. There ain’t nothin else. period. now is ALL we got and even IT’s a surprise every second.. ya want your life mapped out? you sucha control freak you think you got the power to change the course of life? of nature? your path? #3) own up to the REAL problem.. which only you can answer, but i’m guessin getta hobby besides yourself, mabye take up bowling… well, maybe not.. a gutter ball in public could put ya over tha edge. or come spend a week with me at my tattoo shop. (after 13 years in the business, i never asked one tattoo or piercing collector if they wondered what people thought of them.) think about THAT ! Yu know what? I first thought Schizo, but now realize you might be just
obsessive with slight other tendecies. I won’t know until I ask you this question: Do you like Sex? p.s. yer counselor couldn’t pick you outta a midget parade. don’t flatter yerself. GUAR-AN-TEED you were dust in her wind.
I am not sure your not her now needing some attention. Witch isok we all need to feel loved and I loved you so much. here’s a test… you have a choice how you view my previous comments. you can choose several options, the 2 most obvious being "hurtful and painful and that bitch just doesn’t understand".. or.. "hey, maybe this is a positive thing…. lemme sit down and look at this".. (clue: everything in life does not have to be hurtful.. you have a choice as to how you feel. you can be a victim, maintain your plight you’ve created… or change your focus.
How do I find good work and sleep when I want to ? – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – (i’m bettin i’m not in the running for his new girlfriend…. just an educated guess) <smile ~~tanya Your in the running.
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I just wish I didn’t wonder what people were thinking so much. ~~ya wouldn’t wonder what people were thinkin about ya if ya realized how seldom they do. and ya can’t change the past, it’s already happened, and ya can’t predict the future, you’ll be wrong, you can’t project what others are thinking, you’ll be wrong. so basically….. ya think everybody’s thinkin about ya, YER gonna be the one to invent the time machine, recreate your life. ("oh, what if, oh, i wish i hadda, oh darn it, sucked for me, so of course everyone else thinks i suck, becaue i am ‘OMNIPOTENT’)which is a task scientific scholars since the beginning of time when a "past" was even conscienable, PLUS you can read minds and now yer predicting the future. DIAGNOSIS: you are conceited, ostentatious, selfish, self-absorbed, and ta top it off… YOU ARE A VICTIM? puh-leeeeeeze… ya see? i don’t give a rat’s ass what people think about me, subsequently i don’t care if you like what i gotta say or not. pity parties abhor me, it’s a simple ploy for MORE attention for you to complain about. You think people think you’re stupid? (yer kiddin)…. WELL NO SHIT, SHERLOCK ! McFLY!!!!!!! McFLY !!!!!! ANYBODY HOME???? will you get a girlfriend? i can answer that, actually. yeah. you will. the bigger question is… would ya WANT SOMEBODY THAT TOLERATES YOUR BEHAVIOR AND BLAMES ON A DISORDER??? good god, i’m OCD, most of us are in here… so what. be obsessive and compulsive and be done with it and quitchur whinin. now i will prescribe your treatment? sure… sure ya wanna know… #1) stop thinkin about crap that is more counterproductive than a fish salesman at gay bar, #2)GETCHUR HEAD OUTTA YER ASS, GETCHUR MIND ON TODAY, THIS MINUTE, THIS SECOND. There ain’t nothin else. period. now is ALL we got and even IT’s a surprise every second.. ya want your life mapped out? you sucha control freak you think you got the power to change the course of life? of nature? your path? #3) own up to the REAL problem.. which only you can answer, but i’m guessin getta hobby besides yourself, mabye take up bowling… well, maybe not.. a gutter ball in public could put ya over tha edge. or come spend a week with me at my tattoo shop. (after 13 years in the business, i never asked one tattoo or piercing collector if they wondered what people thought of them.) think about THAT ! p.s. yer counselor couldn’t pick you outta a midget parade. don’t flatter yerself. GUAR-AN-TEED you were dust in her wind. here’s a test… you have a choice how you view my previous comments. you can choose several options, the 2 most obvious being "hurtful and painful and that bitch just doesn’t understand".. or.. "hey, maybe this is a positive thing…. lemme sit down and look at this".. (clue: everything in life does not have to be hurtful.. you have a choice as to how you feel. you can be a victim, maintain your plight you’ve created… or change your focus. (i’m bettin i’m not in the running for his new girlfriend…. just an educated guess) <smile ~~tanya YUM , don’t tell me you have a sister like yu? It can’t be that good can
it?
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Anyone else have these kinds of things happening?
Yep, all the time until diazepam entered my life. At times it is bothersome but I know I will be able to get out of it.
A positive attitude is a good start. Good luck with your psychologist. Figaro
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For your consideration: Everything is exactly as it should be. If you say or do something a little bit "stupid" when meeting with people – that’s fine. We don’t all have to be perfect and most people understand that everyone, even you, have certain idiocyncrasies. It’s what makes you you. Maybe something that you say or do that some might consider weird or stupid is exactly the thing that you will say or do that will endear you to that girlfriend you are wondering about. If you are like me you not only have worried / thought / overanalysed what others have or are thinking about you – - but then you also worry that you are over thinking it. But even this…even over thinking things, is just fine. It’s how you and the universe ARE right now. Even this overthinking might be the thing that leads you to something else. You are where you are. You have to start from here. Whatever problems you do or don’t have, real or made up in your head, this is where you are and what will lead you to every good thing and every bad thing that will happen in the future. Accept it. That doesn’t mean to lay down or give up or that you don’t have any power to change things. You do. Part of what you are is a person that can recognize these things and change them if you wish. I believe that most people’s biggest strength are also their biggest weaknesses. And conversly one’s biggest weaknesses are also often part of their strengths. A person that is always sure of themselves might be seen as strong and confident. They might be a great leader. But they might also miss things, be stubborn, be un-open to new ideas. A person that is always questioning every part of the world and themselves might be indecisive but they might also be more open to new idea, more open to certain people.
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I am not sure what to say but I guess I will try. One problem I have and has been getting worse is that I am anaylzing things too much. I am constantly thinking about past events and wondering what I should have done differently or done better, like wishing my life was more enjoyable or wishing I had studied different things in college etc. When I am talking on the phone sometimes I am wondering what the other person thinks sometimes, and when I have visited with a friend or met someone new and departed, I also wonder what they are thinking about me. Sometimes even I think people think I am stupid and things like that. I feel like I should be outgoing more to people but I am always thinking about things so it is hard to talk to people at times, I wish I could just let loose but I can’t. I just wish I didn’t wonder what people were thinking so much. Also at some points I have anxious things happening like wondering when I will get a girlfriend, worrying about transferring colleges, and things like worrying about what will happen after graduating and wondering if I will be able to manage my life. I also have some compulsive-disorder tendencies like arranging things or having to do things The other day I talked to a counsellor about this and I will see a psychologist very soon about this. Actually when I left the counsellor I was actually wondering what she was thinking about me…. Anyone else have these kinds of things happening? At times it is bothersome but I know I will be able to get out of it.
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I am not sure what to say but I guess I will try. One problem I have and has been getting worse is that I am anaylzing things too much. I am constantly thinking about past events and wondering what I should have done differently or done better, like wishing my life was more enjoyable or wishing I had studied different things in college etc. When I am talking on the phone sometimes I am wondering what the other person thinks sometimes, and when I have visited with a friend or met someone new and departed, I also wonder what they are thinking about me. Sometimes even I think people think I am stupid and things like that. I feel like I should be outgoing more to people but I am always thinking about things so it is hard to talk to people at times, I wish I could just let loose but I can’t. I just wish I didn’t wonder what people were thinking so much. Also at some points I have anxious things happening like wondering when I will get a girlfriend, worrying about transferring colleges, and things like worrying about what will happen after graduating and wondering if I will be able to manage my life. I also have some compulsive-disorder tendencies like arranging things or having to do things The other day I talked to a counsellor about this and I will see a psychologist very soon about this. Actually when I left the counsellor I was actually wondering what she was thinking about me…. Anyone else have these kinds of things happening? At times it is bothersome but I know I will be able to get out of it.