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Brian? Why don’t you shut you claptrap. UJ has been here longer than you and this ng LIKES UJ’s posts.
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Brian, I’m sure you mean well, but uj has been here for a long time. He never insults anyone on the ng. You will see for yourself, over time, that he is a wonderful person and is hurting inside like so many others that have been abused. He is also suffering from OCD. Give him a chance. Thanks, mary th – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -ultrajo…@webtv.net wrote: > can’t hndle it > yum yum
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Uj is a sweetie pie & we love him here. Please leave him alone. Mary – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Your posts are irritating. >With all due respect, please >QUIT IT! >If you do not, I will forward your posts to webtv. Please read their >acceptable use policy. It expressly forbids newsgroup flooding, >Sincerely, >Brian
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Brian, UJ is a legitimate and respected poster here. Leave him alone – you are the only person who finds him irritating, nobody else does. By all means attack the troll (TOEJAM aka SquirtsALOT aka Geraldine Goldstein) by complaining to webtv. Steve
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Brian M. (advoc…@ican.net) wrote:
: Ultrajohn1, : ultrajo…@webtv.net wrote:
: > can’t hndle it : > : > yum yum : Your posts are irritating. ummm, yo, bm there. uj is my honorary protege so any criticisms are to be addressed to ME whilst uj hones his posting skills and eventually surpasses the level of the teacher. you get my meaning? : With all due respect, please : QUIT IT! : If you do not, I will forward your posts to webtv. Please read their : acceptable use policy. It expressly forbids newsgroup flooding, considering the great economy of uj’s postings, by comparison, YOU better SHUT UP for the rest of the fucking month. : Sincerely, : Brian most sincerely the dandelion. — – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – shun plastic !!!! – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - –
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hi my name is renee. sometimes if when you feel sad you need help. it is better to talk to some body if you feel sad. some times it helps if you listen to music. some times it helps if you take a deep breath if you feel sad. i feel sad to from renee
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Ultrajohn1, ultrajo…@webtv.net wrote: > can’t hndle it > yum yum
Your posts are irritating. With all due respect, please QUIT IT! If you do not, I will forward your posts to webtv. Please read their acceptable use policy. It expressly forbids newsgroup flooding, Sincerely, Brian
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can’t hndle it yum yum
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I can see that UJ. Lot’s of posts all at once. What’s up? <ultrajo…@webtv.net> wrote in message
news:23840-378427E0-19@newsd-153.iap.bryant.webtv.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> can’t hndle it > yum yum
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stop this kissing mom talk im getting a huge boner ;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;) – - ’ thank you
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D Yruegas wrote:
stop this kissing mom talk im getting a huge boner ;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;) – - ’ NOT funny. Steve
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I find this very offensive. Abuse of any sort is not a joking matter. I attribute much of my wifes disorder to her abuse as a child and my depression was due to the abuse I suffered. Sexual abuse is particularly insidious as it is difficult to speak of openly. UJ has shown great courage in opening up about this and your insensitivity does nothing to encourage him or others to share painful experiences. D Yruegas <yrue…@webtv.net> wrote in message
news:2646-376C9709-63@newsd-103.iap.bryant.webtv.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> stop this kissing mom talk im getting a huge boner
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DITTO!!!! colleen – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->I find this very offensive. Abuse of any sort is not a joking matter. I >attribute much of my wifes disorder to her abuse as a child and my >depression was due to the abuse I suffered. >Sexual abuse is particularly insidious as it is difficult to speak of >openly. UJ has shown great courage in opening up about this and your >insensitivity does nothing to encourage him or others to share painful >experiences. >D Yruegas <yrue…@webtv.net> wrote in message >news:2646-376C9709-63@newsd-103.iap.bryant.webtv.net… >> stop this kissing mom talk im getting a huge boner
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Trevor Lampre (tlam…@camtech.net.au) wrote:
: I find this very offensive. Abuse of any sort is not a joking matter. I : attribute much of my wifes disorder to her abuse as a child and my : depression was due to the abuse I suffered. : Sexual abuse is particularly insidious as it is difficult to speak of : openly. UJ has shown great courage in opening up about this and your : insensitivity does nothing to encourage him or others to share painful : experiences. is this like the time my mother flashed her crotch at me the time I dared to visit her in the hospital? and here I thought it was all because of that other crap and brain cheistry and stuff. : D Yruegas <yrue…@webtv.net> wrote in message : news:2646-376C9709-63@newsd-103.iap.bryant.webtv.net… : > stop this kissing mom talk im getting a huge boner — – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – without firearms regulations one may be tempted to pack a .45 and pop all those muzak speakers in the shopping mall; or a simple sling shot perhaps . . . . .
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On Thu, 17 Jun 1999 21:36:14 -0700 (PDT), ultrajo…@webtv.net wrote: >want to die
I know how you feel, but please don’t leave us. *HUGS* -kbeth
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On Fri, 18 Jun 1999 21:36:05 -0700 (PDT), ultrajo…@webtv.net wrote: >my dad made me kiss my mom!
It’s not your fault, uj. -kbeth
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UJ, Are they disrespect of your ways? Does your step dad understand how you are and what you think?
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I must differ on this. Sexual abuse does not need to be graphic and physical to leave deep scars. As UJ said in another thread the kissing was intense and occured over an extended time. My sexual abuse would probably be called harrasment in todays language. I was groped and molested in public by girls at school for a few years, often in front of teachers. For some reason I was blamed instead of them, maybe because I’m male. The guilt, shame and sense of injustice still affects me today and is the last hurdle of my past I need to overcome. Also, phrases like ‘worse things can happen’ are top of the list of things not to say even when we mean well by them as I’m sure you do here. It implies that a persons suffering is somehow insignificant. Suffering cannot be measured, it is a unique experience for each individual and cannot be compared. I’m sure you didn’t mean to say it in that way but that is how it is often taken. It takes skill to respond to such issues, on one hand not seeming to trivialise it and on the other not letting it seem like the end of the world. Which is why talking it through with a therapist is indeed a good idea, they are trained in this sort of thing. Perry Mobley <pmob…@erols.com> wrote in message
news:376BFF09.F20997C@erols.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Unfortunately parents sometimes overstep their place. However in the > real world things worse than a kiss happens. Don’t feel bad about it. > Try to make peace with it the best you can. Often exploring things like > this with a therapist is a good step. Hope you feel better. Perry > ultrajo…@webtv.net wrote: > > my mom went alone with it! > > it happen alot
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my dad made me kiss my mom!
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ultrajo…@webtv.net wrote: > my dad made me kiss my mom!
Hey ultrajohn, Did your dad really do this – make you kiss your mom – or is this an obsessive thought? I have never known what you really mean by that. If it really happened I think I can understand why you want to get away … to Vegas. Actually I suppose an obsession ’bout that would be upsetting too. Also, why do you hate your mom so much if it was your dad that forced you to kiss your mom? It sounds like your dad might be the bad guy – or am I way off? — Monkey http://pages.hotbot.com/health/sillychickens/ mon…@gilligansisland.net (to email me axe ‘gilligans’) —
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Uggg……my older brother made me give my stepmom a good night kiss when I was a few years younger (when I was around 7, I’m 15, now)……YUCK ! She is such a ***** ! Jen "……Cause with you, I’ll go anywhere, plain outta sight, once around the moon, holdin’ on tight, take me by the hand, hold me by the heart, cause with you, I’ll go anywhere……" - Go Anywhere
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my mom went alone with it! it happen alot
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Unfortunately parents sometimes overstep their place. However in the real world things worse than a kiss happens. Don’t feel bad about it. Try to make peace with it the best you can. Often exploring things like this with a therapist is a good step. Hope you feel better. Perry – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -ultrajo…@webtv.net wrote: > my mom went alone with it! > it happen alot
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I assume you are talking about giving your mom a regular kiss and not something perverted like a French kiss. If it was a regular kiss….what is the problem? I kiss my mom, my mother-in-law, my father-in-law, my sisters & of course my husband. ultrajo…@webtv.net wrote in message
<16707-376BE6C7…@newsd-153.iap.bryant.webtv.net>… my mom went alone with it! it happen alot
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i always want to die but i love life and good things have came to me since i wanted to die, ocd is a fucking disaster but i will continue to live life and fight this fucking thing!!!
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ultrajo…@webtv.net wrote:
: want to die been there, ummm, didnt do that. — – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – without firearms regulations one may be tempted to pack a .45 and pop all those muzak speakers in the shopping mall; or a simple sling shot perhaps . . . . .
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Scott C. (sccar…@borg.nospam.com) wrote:
: x-no-archive: yes : uj, : Please fight your way out of this….get help if needed. You are way : too cool to leave us. Your friend, Scott the uj coolness factor is right off the scale. in da stratosphere. the original olympics gold medal 10 for coolness. a 500 mile pole vault. better than time travel. the mentor meister of coolness. the edmund hillary of coolness. patiently waiting here for the next coolism. : ultrajohn wrote:
: > : > want to die : — : *********************************************************************** : To reply: Remove .nospam from the above. Scott C. @–>–>— — – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – - – without firearms regulations one may be tempted to pack a .45 and pop all those muzak speakers in the shopping mall; or a simple sling shot perhaps . . . . .
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want to die
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Please don’t. I know how you feel.
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Ultra? You’re too intelligent for that. Keep in mind, OCD has a lot of benefits………………….. you are stronger than that. take care of yourself ultra tiff
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Why? No you dont. Your life is very important. I have OCD. Maybe I can help. It will get better. E-mail me to talk. Regin…@aol.com
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my dad made me kiss her! after i say his playboys! sick! i hate me
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Doesn’t sound like you are the one who is "sick". Sometimes children are made to do horrible things because their parents (or some other authority figure) forces them. If this is currently happening to you, please call your local hotline to report the abuse & be given guidance on possibly how to go about getting out of that situation. If you are of age, perhaps you can leave. I can guess you are very angry with your father for making you do it, and of course your mom because she didn’t stop it from happening. Once you are in a safe place, you can begin working on understanding that *you* aren’t the one who is or was "sick". Hope I’m not making this sound too simple. It isn’t. But you’ve already made a wonderful start just by reaching out & telling what happened to you. ~~~Octavia ===================== In article <4412-36787DDB-…@newsd-161.iap.bryant.webtv.net>, ultrajo…@webtv.net wrote: > my dad made me kiss her! > after i say his playboys! > sick! i hate me
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On Mon, 14 Dec 1998 20:33:47 -0800 (PST), ultrajo…@webtv.net wrote: >hate my mother
Well, that’s a start. Now try, I (BIG I). And tell me some more things you don’t like. I saw your first post and thought about it. Then this one comes along and, okay, you have my attention. M. Darkness Made Visible …………………. Mary:Latin root – Ocean, Greek – Morning, Verticle – the Sea below & Sky above, Blue – Darkness Made Visible – Even if it’s but a spark to lighten your Journey…
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In article <29579-3675E6AB…@newsd-162.iap.bryant.webtv.net>, ultrajo…@webtv.net wrote: > hate my mother
Not surprising. What did she "do" (physically or emotionally) to you to cause you to hate her? Secondly, and most important, don’t know how old you are but I hope you are of age where you can stay away from her so she can’t cause you further damage & to give you time to safely get your head back on straight. ~~~Octavia (OCD face digger, scalp picker, over-eater, clutter bug, etc. in case anyone is wondering who the heck I am & why I’m lurking around in this group) ———–== Posted via Deja News, The Discussion Network ==———- http://www.dejanews.com/ Search, Read, Discuss, or Start Your Own
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hate my mother
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why do you hate your mother? do tell
