A breakthrough…

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I think I had my first real success with OCD last night.  I went to a fraternity house, a place where I wouldn’t normally feel comfortable, and I had a great time.  It was like my mind was able to rise above the obsessions…I think I’m finally starting to be able to use the impartial spectator, as in Brain Lock. I realized this, and I was so happy…  I feel great and very confident today, like I’ve never felt before.  

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Ben wrote:

 > It was like my mind was able to rise above the obsessions…I  > think I’m finally starting to be able to use the impartial spectator,  > as in Brain Lock. I realized this, and I was so happy…  I feel great  > and very confident today, like I’ve never felt before. Brilliant!

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That’s brilliant!  WELL DONE! :-) No matter what, there is *always* light at the end of the tunnell :) Best; Jon "Ben" <xstor…@aol.comnojunk> wrote in message

news:20020511151926.04382.00012746@mb-fi.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I think I had my first real success with OCD last night.  I went to a > fraternity house, a place where I wouldn’t normally feel comfortable, and I had > a great time.  It was like my mind was able to rise above the obsessions…I > think I’m finally starting to be able to use the impartial spectator, as in > Brain Lock. I realized this, and I was so happy…  I feel great and very > confident today, like I’ve never felt before.

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Thank you for the support, I think I’m finally seeing the OCD for what it really is.  This is just the beginning, however, and I have a long road to travel.   Ben

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Wow, I’m very proud of you! :) Things will keep getting better from here! Everytime you conquer one fear yo are beating the ocd..and even if you have other problem arising..they are easier to deal with everytime you conquer another! If that makes any sense! :) Well done! :) ~Am~ xxx =) Ben <xstor…@aol.comnojunk> wrote in message

news:20020511151926.04382.00012746@mb-fi.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> I think I had my first real success with OCD last night.  I went to a > fraternity house, a place where I wouldn’t normally feel comfortable, and I had > a great time.  It was like my mind was able to rise above the obsessions…I > think I’m finally starting to be able to use the impartial spectator, as in > Brain Lock. I realized this, and I was so happy…  I feel great and very > confident today, like I’ve never felt before.

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"Pola_Pink" <pola_pin…@hotmail.com> wrote in message <news:x2tD8.7224$Q85.420428@ozemail.com.au>… > Wow, I’m very proud of you! :) Things will keep getting better from here! > Everytime you conquer one fear yo are beating the ocd..and even if you have > other problem arising..they are easier to deal with everytime you conquer > another! If that makes any sense! :) > Well done! :) > ~Am~ > xxx =)

That makes a lot of sense, this was just the first time I conquered a fear like this.  It was a pretty big fear, and kept me isolating myself for a long time.  I was worried that I would go back to feeling anxious around people I don’t know, but the confidence has remained. Right now I’m in the Mayo Hospital visiting my cousin, and I’m feeling pretty uncomfortable.  I think I’m obsessing that I will develope a contamination obsession.  Does that make sense? I guess I should just lighten up.  Thanks for the responses! Ben

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Good going!  Now having done it once, you can not say it can not be done.  You have to expect backsliding, it is unavoidable, but you are getting there.             best wishes, Richard – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Ben wrote: > "Pola_Pink" <pola_pin…@hotmail.com> wrote in message <news:x2tD8.7224$Q85.420428@ozemail.com.au>… >>Wow, I’m very proud of you! :) Things will keep getting better from here! >>Everytime you conquer one fear yo are beating the ocd..and even if you have >>other problem arising..they are easier to deal with everytime you conquer >>another! If that makes any sense! :) >>Well done! :) >>~Am~ >>xxx =) > That makes a lot of sense, this was just the first time I conquered a > fear like this.  It was a pretty big fear, and kept me isolating > myself for a long time.  I was worried that I would go back to feeling > anxious around people I don’t know, but the confidence has remained. > Right now I’m in the Mayo Hospital visiting my cousin, and I’m feeling > pretty uncomfortable.  I think I’m obsessing that I will develope a > contamination obsession.  Does that make sense? I guess I should just > lighten up.  Thanks for the responses! > Ben

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richiew wrote: > Good going!  Now having done it once, you can not say it can not be > done.  You have to expect backsliding, it is unavoidable, but you are > getting there.             best wishes, Richard

Keep going. It is not an easy path to take.

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