Lars – Please read this

Question:

Monica skrev i meddelelsen … – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->you know what … you are the person who should really be ticked at me … >and it has nothing to do with Calvin … you are the one who really tried to >talk to me … privately … and I was too far gone to listen or process >what you were saying … first my depression got in the way and then my rage >… and lately I’ve been so busy defending myself that I’ve totally >forgotten to even bring this up … but tonight when I said that it was you >that convinced Calvin to stop badgering me … I also realized that I had >not thanked you or apologized to you for the grief I caused you … so I >would like to do so now and do it publicly so there can be no mistake … we >do not always agree on everything … we often agree on much … and you’ve >always been supportive even when we do not agree … so please accept my >apology … I cannot excuse my OCD related behavior during the times I am >out of control … it can be irrational and indefensible … and I apologize >… sincerely … for what my behavior did to you … and I thank you for >your concern … you don’t have to forgive me … but I do have to >acknowledge the pain I caused you … and I’m sorry … anyone else that was >hurt … well I’ve apologized for that already … and that was >unintentional … but Lars and I were corresponding directly … I am fully >aware of how much I alarmed him with my panic and then my outrage … and I >am so very sorry about that … please excuse my tardiness … sometime the >light of day arrives quite some time after the storm … Monica

Hi Monica. Of course I accept your apology. I know that OCD can cause a lot of pain and that it can sometimes affect a person’s actions. Don’t worry about it. Take care, Lars

Response:

you know what … you are the person who should really be ticked at me … and it has nothing to do with Calvin … you are the one who really tried to talk to me … privately … and I was too far gone to listen or process what you were saying … first my depression got in the way and then my rage … and lately I’ve been so busy defending myself that I’ve totally forgotten to even bring this up … but tonight when I said that it was you that convinced Calvin to stop badgering me … I also realized that I had not thanked you or apologized to you for the grief I caused you … so I would like to do so now and do it publicly so there can be no mistake … we do not always agree on everything … we often agree on much … and you’ve always been supportive even when we do not agree … so please accept my apology … I cannot excuse my OCD related behavior during the times I am out of control … it can be irrational and indefensible … and I apologize … sincerely … for what my behavior did to you … and I thank you for your concern … you don’t have to forgive me … but I do have to acknowledge the pain I caused you … and I’m sorry … anyone else that was hurt … well I’ve apologized for that already … and that was unintentional … but Lars and I were corresponding directly … I am fully aware of how much I alarmed him with my panic and then my outrage … and I am so very sorry about that … please excuse my tardiness … sometime the light of day arrives quite some time after the storm … Monica

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