new f'n ocd worry
Question:
like how do u know when a relationship is the best i mean we have very few people to choose from and we have to pick from them. i mean i get along with people really well, but how do u know. This works with friends too. Im friends with a lot of people but how do I know if they are really meant to be since there is a whole world out there and I have little to choose to. I mean i know these people are my friends but I have little choice when we just have a small area to choose from. I cant stop fucking thinking about this Justin
Response:
Hi Justin… I’m a little confused…are you asking how do you know if you are meant to be friends with this person, or that person? In my opinion, you are meant to be friends with someone if they add a positive influence to your life. If your friends are there for you, understanding, loyal, then they are meant to be your friends. If they treat you with disrespect, then you’d probably be better off without them. Shana shaynuh…@aol.com Visit the web site created for alt.support.ocd! http://members.aol.com/shaynuh512/page1.html I’m so sick of this roller coaster ride…I want my ticket back!!!
Response:
Some of your knowledge of how to pick the right people will come with experience and age. I thought my first husband was the real thing and he wasn’t- back then, I didn’t think I could get a man so I took the first one that came along. Now I am more choosy. Same with friends. I will not put up with certain activities or behaviors that I would have tolerated when I was younger. So have (realistic) standards and stick to them. Don’t be a snob, but neither should you settle for just anything because you think you won’t get anything else. With Bill, he always made me feel safe, loved and he makes me laugh. Ida "Woodmere79" <woodmer…@aol.com> wrote in message
news:20020126000430.12140.00000586@mb-cl.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> like how do u know when a relationship is the best i mean we have very few > people to choose from and we have to pick from them. i mean i get along with > people really well, but how do u know. > This works with friends too. Im friends with a lot of people but how do I know > if they are really meant to be since there is a whole world out there and I > have little to choose to. I mean i know these people are my friends but I have > little choice when we just have a small area to choose from. > I cant stop fucking thinking about this > Justin
