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In article <38BF5B1B.7…@borg.nospam.com>, Scott C. <cny…@borg.nospam.com> writes >To the lowlifes who have chosen to use the pain of such a loss as a >weapon…
I’m sorry to say that it’s you who have been doing this. See below. You could have just expressed your pain, for which I am sorry, and told us you would be away for a few days. That would have been so much better. >remember this. You think you are hurting me…you are >not…and you haven’t a clue as to the pain already long endured. You >did however disrespect a loving and gentle boy who had his life stolen >by OCD and depression. Remember this on Sunday…and if you really have >a shred of soul in your body, mark Sunday as a turning point to stop the >disgusting nonsense on this ng.
– simon
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Scott, I will have you in my thoughts. Death sucks for the survivors. It is so cruel when it comes in bunches. I understand that this time of year will be difficult for you for the rest of your years. Please keep in your mind that in only a few weeks spring will arrive and we can all be given the chance for renewal through nature. Lisa * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!
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take good care … Monica – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Scott C. wrote in message <38BF5B1B.7…@borg.nospam.com>… >x-no-archive: yes > I just came from my best friend’s house….he collapsed today at work >and they never got him back. He left 3 beautiful children and a loving >wife. Already been to 2 funerals this week, now a third plus our >anniversary of losing our Brian is Sunday. Sometimes I just wonder when >enough pain is enough… > Given my life at the moment, and the deteriorating nature of this >group, I need a few days to regroup. > Thanks to my friends for the support and for the messages and posts >throughout the year. The pain of losing a child should never be taken >for granted…I again thank my friends for knowing that. > To the lowlifes who have chosen to use the pain of such a loss as a >weapon…remember this. You think you are hurting me…you are >not…and you haven’t a clue as to the pain already long endured. You >did however disrespect a loving and gentle boy who had his life stolen >by OCD and depression. Remember this on Sunday…and if you really have >a shred of soul in your body, mark Sunday as a turning point to stop the >disgusting nonsense on this ng. > I am trying to get a few e-mails out to my friends…I owe quite a >few….will do my best. Nite, Scott >– >*********************************************************************** >To reply: Remove .nospam from the above. Scott C. @–>–>—
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Scott, Your friend’s family will be in my prayers. Hang in there. Chris – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Scott C. wrote: > x-no-archive: yes > I just came from my best friend’s house….he collapsed today at work > and they never got him back. He left 3 beautiful children and a loving > wife. Already been to 2 funerals this week, now a third plus our > anniversary of losing our Brian is Sunday. Sometimes I just wonder when > enough pain is enough… > Given my life at the moment, and the deteriorating nature of this > group, I need a few days to regroup. > Thanks to my friends for the support and for the messages and posts > throughout the year. The pain of losing a child should never be taken > for granted…I again thank my friends for knowing that. > To the lowlifes who have chosen to use the pain of such a loss as a > weapon…remember this. You think you are hurting me…you are > not…and you haven’t a clue as to the pain already long endured. You > did however disrespect a loving and gentle boy who had his life stolen > by OCD and depression. Remember this on Sunday…and if you really have > a shred of soul in your body, mark Sunday as a turning point to stop the > disgusting nonsense on this ng. > I am trying to get a few e-mails out to my friends…I owe quite a > few….will do my best. Nite, Scott > — > *********************************************************************** > To reply: Remove .nospam from the above. Scott C. @–>–>—
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Scott, You’ve had a lot of pain to go through and I hope your pain will subside in the months ahead. All the best, John
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Hi Scott, I am so sorry to hear about your best friend. You have been through so much pain already in your life. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Take Care, Gretchen Scott C. <cny…@borg.nospam.com> wrote in message
news:38BF5B1B.746B@borg.nospam.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> x-no-archive: yes > I just came from my best friend’s house….he collapsed today at work > and they never got him back. He left 3 beautiful children and a loving > wife. Already been to 2 funerals this week, now a third plus our > anniversary of losing our Brian is Sunday. Sometimes I just wonder when > enough pain is enough… > Given my life at the moment, and the deteriorating nature of this > group, I need a few days to regroup. > Thanks to my friends for the support and for the messages and posts > throughout the year. The pain of losing a child should never be taken > for granted…I again thank my friends for knowing that. > To the lowlifes who have chosen to use the pain of such a loss as a > weapon…remember this. You think you are hurting me…you are > not…and you haven’t a clue as to the pain already long endured. You > did however disrespect a loving and gentle boy who had his life stolen > by OCD and depression. Remember this on Sunday…and if you really have > a shred of soul in your body, mark Sunday as a turning point to stop the > disgusting nonsense on this ng. > I am trying to get a few e-mails out to my friends…I owe quite a > few….will do my best. Nite, Scott > — > *********************************************************************** > To reply: Remove .nospam from the above. Scott C. @–>–>—
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Simon Smith wrote: > I’m sorry to say that it’s you who have been doing this. See below. You > could have just expressed your pain, for which I am sorry, and told us > you would be away for a few days. That would have been so much better.
Yep, Simon. He uses his loss as a defence mechanism and a weapon. As somebody said, it’s "emotional manipulation of the newsgroup". Kind regards, Steve ~ http://www.mybookmarks.com/public/Steve_George ~ steph…@georgeharris.freeserve.co.uk ~ Fax & Voicemail: (+44) 0704 470 0528
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Oh, my. Lisa * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!
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Scott, I am so sorry to hear about your friend. Life just isn’t fair.My prayers are with you and your family. Annmarie The brown eyed lady
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Scott, I can’t imagine the pain and difficulty of losing a child. I’ve thought about the possibility, but always shut it out of my mind. No one can identify with that kind of hurt until they have experienced it. I hope you will always remember the good time with that lived one, and in so doing the memory will ease the pain. GWingo
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Now, this is truely touching. On Fri, 03 Mar 2000 12:53:51 GMT, simon smith <figm…@clara.co.uk> wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->In article <38BF5B1B.7…@borg.nospam.com>, Scott C. ><cny…@borg.nospam.com> writes >>To the lowlifes who have chosen to use the pain of such a loss as a >>weapon… >I’m sorry to say that it’s you who have been doing this. See below. You >could have just expressed your pain, for which I am sorry, and told us >you would be away for a few days. That would have been so much better. >>remember this. You think you are hurting me…you are >>not…and you haven’t a clue as to the pain already long endured. You >>did however disrespect a loving and gentle boy who had his life stolen >>by OCD and depression. Remember this on Sunday…and if you really have >>a shred of soul in your body, mark Sunday as a turning point to stop the >>disgusting nonsense on this ng. >– >simon
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Oops, I hit a button to early. What I was trying to say is this… Scott, I am so sorry to hear about your grief at this time. Please, don’t stay away to long. I certainly need your input in regards to my Mark. I will absolutley carry Brian in my thoughts on Sunday. I know only to well about little boys, depression, OCD, and suicidal thoughts. Hang in there Scott. In the grand scheme of things, everything you have gone through has a purpose, and maybe it’s to just touch that one person with your story, and change their life. Take care, Mynx :O) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -On Sat, 04 Mar 2000 05:52:40 GMT, M…@ix.netcom.com (Mynx) wrote: >Now, this is truely touching. >On Fri, 03 Mar 2000 12:53:51 GMT, simon smith <figm…@clara.co.uk> >wrote: >>In article <38BF5B1B.7…@borg.nospam.com>, Scott C. >><cny…@borg.nospam.com> writes >>>To the lowlifes who have chosen to use the pain of such a loss as a >>>weapon… >>I’m sorry to say that it’s you who have been doing this. See below. You >>could have just expressed your pain, for which I am sorry, and told us >>you would be away for a few days. That would have been so much better. >>>remember this. You think you are hurting me…you are >>>not…and you haven’t a clue as to the pain already long endured. You >>>did however disrespect a loving and gentle boy who had his life stolen >>>by OCD and depression. Remember this on Sunday…and if you really have >>>a shred of soul in your body, mark Sunday as a turning point to stop the >>>disgusting nonsense on this ng. >>– >>simon
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Don’t give up on this group. You are a valuable member here. I know the flame war is getting tiresome. It is wearing on me, too but this group is cyclic but I’m sure it will soon come to an end like everything else. Maybe a few days vacation will do you good but please come back! Hugs, Ida Scott C. <cny…@borg.nospam.com> wrote in message
news:38BF5B1B.746B@borg.nospam.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> x-no-archive: yes > I just came from my best friend’s house….he collapsed today at work > and they never got him back. He left 3 beautiful children and a loving > wife. Already been to 2 funerals this week, now a third plus our > anniversary of losing our Brian is Sunday. Sometimes I just wonder when > enough pain is enough… > Given my life at the moment, and the deteriorating nature of this > group, I need a few days to regroup. > Thanks to my friends for the support and for the messages and posts > throughout the year. The pain of losing a child should never be taken > for granted…I again thank my friends for knowing that. > To the lowlifes who have chosen to use the pain of such a loss as a > weapon…remember this. You think you are hurting me…you are > not…and you haven’t a clue as to the pain already long endured. You > did however disrespect a loving and gentle boy who had his life stolen > by OCD and depression. Remember this on Sunday…and if you really have > a shred of soul in your body, mark Sunday as a turning point to stop the > disgusting nonsense on this ng. > I am trying to get a few e-mails out to my friends…I owe quite a > few….will do my best. Nite, Scott > — > *********************************************************************** > To reply: Remove .nospam from the above. Scott C. @–>–>—
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In article <oGSv4.5585$O5.165557@stones>, "Stephen George" <steph…@georgeharris.freeserve.co.uk> wrote: >Yep, Simon. He uses his loss as a defence mechanism and a weapon. >As somebody said, it’s "emotional manipulation of the newsgroup".
Steve, His post sounded like he’s intending to leave for good…not clear from the way it sounded. * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!
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In article <16e86f3c.7f897…@usw-ex0108-063.remarq.com>, 258920293829 <dannyb2lnNOdaS…@mailandnews.com.invalid> wrote: >Steve, >His post sounded like he’s intending to leave for good…not >clear from the way it sounded.
UHH!!! duh!!! * Sent from RemarQ http://www.remarq.com The Internet’s Discussion Network * The fastest and easiest way to search and participate in Usenet – Free!
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No, I think you meant it. In article <38c0a471.54483…@nntp.ix.netcom.com>, M…@ix.netcom.com (Mynx) wrote: >Now, this is truely touching. >On Fri, 03 Mar 2000 12:53:51 GMT, simon smith
<figm…@clara.co.uk> – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->wrote: >>In article <38BF5B1B.7…@borg.nospam.com>, Scott C. >><cny…@borg.nospam.com> writes >>>To the lowlifes who have chosen to use the pain of such a loss as a >>>weapon… >>I’m sorry to say that it’s you who have been doing this. See below. You >>could have just expressed your pain, for which I am sorry, and told us >>you would be away for a few days. That would have been so much better. >>>remember this. You think you are hurting me…you are >>>not…and you haven’t a clue as to the pain already long endured. You >>>did however disrespect a loving and gentle boy who had his life stolen >>>by OCD and depression. Remember this on Sunday…and if you really have >>>a shred of soul in your body, mark Sunday as a turning point to stop the >>>disgusting nonsense on this ng. >>– >>simon
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So sorry to hear this, Scott. My thoughts are with you. Fly – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Scott C. wrote in message <38BF5B1B.7…@borg.nospam.com>… >x-no-archive: yes > I just came from my best friend’s house….he collapsed today at work >and they never got him back. He left 3 beautiful children and a loving >wife. Already been to 2 funerals this week, now a third plus our >anniversary of losing our Brian is Sunday. Sometimes I just wonder when >enough pain is enough… > Given my life at the moment, and the deteriorating nature of this >group, I need a few days to regroup. > Thanks to my friends for the support and for the messages and posts >throughout the year. The pain of losing a child should never be taken >for granted…I again thank my friends for knowing that. > To the lowlifes who have chosen to use the pain of such a loss as a >weapon…remember this. You think you are hurting me…you are >not…and you haven’t a clue as to the pain already long endured. You >did however disrespect a loving and gentle boy who had his life stolen >by OCD and depression. Remember this on Sunday…and if you really have >a shred of soul in your body, mark Sunday as a turning point to stop the >disgusting nonsense on this ng. > I am trying to get a few e-mails out to my friends…I owe quite a >few….will do my best. Nite, Scott >– >*********************************************************************** >To reply: Remove .nospam from the above. Scott C. @–>–>—
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Scott!! I am so sorry to hear the bad news of your friend! 
Just does not seem fair does it? geez…you sure are having to go thru alot of loss & grief!!! Please hang in there..things will get better!! Aimee Only the good die young. Scott C. <cny…@borg.nospam.com> wrote in message
news:38BF5B1B.746B@borg.nospam.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> x-no-archive: yes > I just came from my best friend’s house….he collapsed today at work > and they never got him back. He left 3 beautiful children and a loving > wife. Already been to 2 funerals this week, now a third plus our > anniversary of losing our Brian is Sunday. Sometimes I just wonder when > enough pain is enough… > Given my life at the moment, and the deteriorating nature of this > group, I need a few days to regroup. > Thanks to my friends for the support and for the messages and posts > throughout the year. The pain of losing a child should never be taken > for granted…I again thank my friends for knowing that. > To the lowlifes who have chosen to use the pain of such a loss as a > weapon…remember this. You think you are hurting me…you are > not…and you haven’t a clue as to the pain already long endured. You > did however disrespect a loving and gentle boy who had his life stolen > by OCD and depression. Remember this on Sunday…and if you really have > a shred of soul in your body, mark Sunday as a turning point to stop the > disgusting nonsense on this ng. > I am trying to get a few e-mails out to my friends…I owe quite a > few….will do my best. Nite, Scott > — > *********************************************************************** > To reply: Remove .nospam from the above. Scott C. @–>–>—
