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I totally agree with what John said earlier.  We aren’t here to fight with eachother.  This is NOT the forum for the way you guys have been acting. There are hurting souls who write and read these posts.  I’ve only been here for a week and I cannot believe how you all have been acting. If you want to continue on *flaming* eachother, set-up your own newsgroup. This one’s called *alt.support.ocd*, in case you forgot. —

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Jeff (and John), I whole-heartedly agree that WE should all try to make this a better place to discuss OCD, and I wish it could be so, but the cold truth is that this is an unmoderated group, and there are SO many skeletons in the closet here that what John suggested will never happen. As an alternative, I go to Fairlite (www.fairlite.com/cgi-bin/ocdgiveboard). I would go to ASOM, but unfortunately there is little more there than fluff there (e.g., something like 15 birthday wishes for Simon). My advice is to take from here what you can and leave the rest. Ironically, Tom Luby, the person who has been accused of being one of the biggest flamers here (not a gay reference Tom!), is one of the more knowledgable people on the subject of OCD. (Let "the posse" flames begin!!) Just my two cents… Chris – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -Jeff Stewart wrote: > I totally agree with what John said earlier.  We aren’t here to fight with > eachother.  This is NOT the forum for the way you guys have been acting. > There are hurting souls who write and read these posts.  I’ve only been here > for a week and I cannot believe how you all have been acting. > If you want to continue on *flaming* eachother, set-up your own newsgroup. > This one’s called *alt.support.ocd*, in case you forgot. > —

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jeff, FUCK YOU, FAGGOT!!! welcome to the NG!! TL

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I know you’ll interpret it to mean whatever suits your motives best. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -"L.Ros." wrote: > Chris skrev i meddelelsen <3921D2E4.501F…@excite.com>… > Ironically, Tom Luby, the person who has been accused of being one of the > >biggest flamers here > He "has been accused" of this? Should we interpret that to mean that you > think Tom Luby *isn’t* in fact one of the biggest flamers here?

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If you would have read the original e-mail, you would know that no names were ever mentioned.  This message was not directed to you, Tom, so I don’t appreciate your anger towards me. Secondly,  I am Michelle, Jeff’s wife, who sent the post.  I am in dire need of some support of my OCD and can’t believe that people would do what has been going on in here. You can say and call me whatever you want.  I want to be here to support people who have trouble.  I think your original intention was to do the same. Michelle :) Thomas Luby <tel…@webtv.net> wrote in message

news:15970-3921DC8A-32@storefull-287.iap.bryant.webtv.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> jeff, > FUCK YOU, FAGGOT!!! > welcome to the NG!! > TL

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"Jeff Stewart" <jsstew…@mindspring.com> wrote in message

news:8ft82g$74n$1@slb3.atl.mindspring.net… > If you would have read the original e-mail, you would know that no names > were ever mentioned.  This message was not directed to you, Tom, so I don’t > appreciate your anger towards me.

Tom doesn’t care if you appreciate it or not, he just has a "need" to be as vulgar and offensive as he can possibly be. > Secondly,  I am Michelle, Jeff’s wife, who sent the post.  I am in dire need > of some support of my OCD and can’t believe that people would do what has > been going on in here.

Well, Tom is about the only person who is truly vicious. You will no doubt find things you agree with and things you do not agree with and debate can get heated but they are far more civil. Tom does not discuss issues or debate, he just flames away. > You can say and call me whatever you want.  I want to be here to support > people who have trouble.  I think your original intention was to do the > same. > Michelle :)

If you are speaking of Tom as having an original intention to support, you are wrong. He has his reasons for being here but has yet to articulate just what his intentions are.He has been here for more than a year and there has been little change. — Take care of your "self". whatatrip rbol…@eburg.com —–= Posted via Newsfeeds.Com, Uncensored Usenet News =—– http://www.newsfeeds.com – The #1 Newsgroup Service in the World! —–==  Over 80,000 Newsgroups – 16 Different Servers! =—–

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In article <3921D2E4.501F…@excite.com>, Chris <ezra…@excite.com> writes > I >would go to ASOM, but unfortunately there is little more there than >fluff there (e.g., something like 15 birthday wishes for Simon).

Six, actually, six. In the last week three new posters and one previous one have written seeking advice and got it. Another poster who no longer posts in this group because of things Mr. Luby said talked about a very important upcoming event in her life and got support. I’ll pretend I’m in the moderated group and not say any more. — simon  

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Chris skrev i meddelelsen <3921D2E4.501F…@excite.com>… Ironically, Tom Luby, the person who has been accused of being one of the >biggest flamers here

He "has been accused" of this? Should we interpret that to mean that you think Tom Luby *isn’t* in fact one of the biggest flamers here?

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"Chris" <ezra…@excite.com> wrote in message > I know you’ll interpret it to mean whatever suits your motives best.

I thought you were the master of that art. Calvin

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Welcome to the group, Michelle. Sorry you got blasted so soon. You will find that most of us can be very supportive. Ida Jeff Stewart <jsstew…@mindspring.com> wrote in message

news:8ft82g$74n$1@slb3.atl.mindspring.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> If you would have read the original e-mail, you would know that no names > were ever mentioned.  This message was not directed to you, Tom, so I don’t > appreciate your anger towards me. > Secondly,  I am Michelle, Jeff’s wife, who sent the post.  I am in dire need > of some support of my OCD and can’t believe that people would do what has > been going on in here. > You can say and call me whatever you want.  I want to be here to support > people who have trouble.  I think your original intention was to do the > same. > Michelle :) > Thomas Luby <tel…@webtv.net> wrote in message > news:15970-3921DC8A-32@storefull-287.iap.bryant.webtv.net… > > jeff, > > FUCK YOU, FAGGOT!!! > > welcome to the NG!! > > TL

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