YOU THOUGHT YOU COULD TALK HERE
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you do what you do , others do something else
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – X-No-Archive: yes Where is it written that if someone gets advice – they then must take it. On whose time table does that work? I kind of want to know so I can judge that the next time I need advice. I’ll know whether to post about a given problem. I rarely post with the expectation that someone must take my advice or I’m going flame them or out them. What is that all about? and you did talk here , and you got good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and got more good advice , do you detect a small pattern , that may cause people to start , reacting differently to your talk ? — For more information about this NNTP posting service, contact: If you want an anonymous account, visit our sign-up page: https://asarian-host.net/cgi-bin/signup.cgi
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shouldn’t it be , " we ? "
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – X-No-Archive: yes Old tired argument – I ain’t gonna go there with you. I’d rather stay on topic. So I’ll pass going down this road – been there done that done my time there. so you are the in general spokes person ? we would be the newsgroup in general. And nope I’m not expecting. well i’m not sure who , " we " is ? and it’s ok to be nervous especially if your expecting Oh I realize that – I wasn’t asking for any advice – nor had I discussed a problem of mine. However, I get really nervous when we start expecting people to take our advice and adjust their life according to our expectations. My advice is often good, but I’m not expecting that kitty should take it or else. I have experienced talking to people in domestic violence situations for years before they leave. I don’t like doing that and its frustrating but I have come to learn that people leave when they need to leave and not before and I cannot determine for them when that time should be. I don’t dispense advice and then sit and tap my foot expecting that everyone is going to jump. Sometimes around here we tie everyone’s problems up in a little neatly wrapped bundle all solved – and then are amazed when they don’t go along with our program. I don’t think that we should expect that – I’m kinda thinking advice is to be given freely with no strings. if i had of been talking to you , i would’ve made it simpler to understand , but , since i wasn’t , i didn’t Where is it written that if someone gets advice – they then must take it. On whose time table does that work? I kind of want to know so I can judge that the next time I need advice. I’ll know whether to post about a given problem. I rarely post with the expectation that someone must take my advice or I’m going flame them or out them. What is that all about? and you did talk here , and you got good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and got more good advice , do you detect a small pattern , that may cause people to start , reacting differently to your talk — For more information about this NNTP posting service, contact: If you want an anonymous account, visit our sign-up page: https://asarian-host.net/cgi-bin/signup.cgi
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so you are the in general spokes person ?
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – X-No-Archive: yes we would be the newsgroup in general. And nope I’m not expecting. well i’m not sure who , " we " is ? and it’s ok to be nervous especially if your expecting Oh I realize that – I wasn’t asking for any advice – nor had I discussed a problem of mine. However, I get really nervous when we start expecting people to take our advice and adjust their life according to our expectations. My advice is often good, but I’m not expecting that kitty should take it or else. I have experienced talking to people in domestic violence situations for years before they leave. I don’t like doing that and its frustrating but I have come to learn that people leave when they need to leave and not before and I cannot determine for them when that time should be. I don’t dispense advice and then sit and tap my foot expecting that everyone is going to jump. Sometimes around here we tie everyone’s problems up in a little neatly wrapped bundle all solved – and then are amazed when they don’t go along with our program. I don’t think that we should expect that – I’m kinda thinking advice is to be given freely with no strings. if i had of been talking to you , i would’ve made it simpler to understand , but , since i wasn’t , i didn’t Where is it written that if someone gets advice – they then must take it. On whose time table does that work? I kind of want to know so I can judge that the next time I need advice. I’ll know whether to post about a given problem. I rarely post with the expectation that someone must take my advice or I’m going flame them or out them. What is that all about? and you did talk here , and you got good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and got more good advice , do you detect a small pattern , that may cause people to start , reacting differently to your talk — For more information about this NNTP posting service, contact: If you want an anonymous account, visit our sign-up page: https://asarian-host.net/cgi-bin/signup.cgi
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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – It’s ok, Dave told me to get out of there 2 months or so ago, before the physical stuff started. He predicted it would start, and he was right. He doesn’t like it that I’m still talking about what is going on, and haven’t moved yet. He thinks that just because I haven’t moved yet, that I rejected the advice which is not true. I just have to do it an a time table that I can deal with. It could possibly expose me to more crap… and when it does, and I mention it, people get pissed that I haven’t taken their good advice yet. Well, just because I haven’t gotten my crap together and acted on stuff, doesn’t mean I rejected the advice. I’m just barely getting past getting past feeling paralyzed and past having panic attacks about the whole situation… So excuse the fuck out of me for having additional problems that arte making it difficult for me to jump and act on it. Some of these things take a little bit of time to take care of. And yes, I post about what goes on in my head, and I do it frequently. It help me think it through, and think it over, and helps me convince myself to do what needs to be done. Some people get tired of reading it. Well, I can only do what I can do. It’s not gonna be good enough for some, but, that’s their problem. I can’t do it at anyone else’s pace than my own. But anyway, that’s what he’s talking about, he’s told me to move, before it all started couple of months ago or so, and is tired of hearing about it. He also knows I made plans to move in January, but appears to not believe me.
yours truly , Mrs. Bullshit
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It’s ok, Dave told me to get out of there 2 months or so ago, before the physical stuff started. He predicted it would start, and he was right. He doesn’t like it that I’m still talking about what is going on, and haven’t moved yet. He thinks that just because I haven’t moved yet, that I rejected the advice which is not true. I just have to do it an a time table that I can deal with. It could possibly expose me to more crap… and when it does, and I mention it, people get pissed that I haven’t taken their good advice yet. Well, just because I haven’t gotten my crap together and acted on stuff, doesn’t mean I rejected the advice. I’m just barely getting past getting past feeling paralyzed and past having panic attacks about the whole situation… So excuse the fuck out of me for having additional problems that arte making it difficult for me to jump and act on it. Some of these things take a little bit of time to take care of. And yes, I post about what goes on in my head, and I do it frequently. It help me think it through, and think it over, and helps me convince myself to do what needs to be done. Some people get tired of reading it. Well, I can only do what I can do. It’s not gonna be good enough for some, but, that’s their problem. I can’t do it at anyone else’s pace than my own. But anyway, that’s what he’s talking about, he’s told me to move, before it all started couple of months ago or so, and is tired of hearing about it. He also knows I made plans to move in January, but appears to not believe me.
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – X-No-Archive: yes Oh I realize that – I wasn’t asking for any advice – nor had I discussed a problem of mine. However, I get really nervous when we start expecting people to take our advice and adjust their life according to our expectations. My advice is often good, but I’m not expecting that kitty should take it or else. I have experienced talking to people in domestic violence situations for years before they leave. I don’t like doing that and its frustrating but I have come to learn that people leave when they need to leave and not before and I cannot determine for them when that time should be. I don’t dispense advice and then sit and tap my foot expecting that everyone is going to jump. Sometimes around here we tie everyone’s problems up in a little neatly wrapped bundle all solved – and then are amazed when they don’t go along with our program. I don’t think that we should expect that – I’m kinda thinking advice is to be given freely with no strings. if i had of been talking to you , i would’ve made it simpler to understand , but , since i wasn’t , i didn’t Where is it written that if someone gets advice – they then must take it. On whose time table does that work? I kind of want to know so I can judge that the next time I need advice. I’ll know whether to post about a given problem. I rarely post with the expectation that someone must take my advice or I’m going flame them or out them. What is that all about? and you did talk here , and you got good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and got more good advice , do you detect a small pattern , that may cause people to start , reacting differently to your talk — For more information about this NNTP posting service, contact: If you want an anonymous account, visit our sign-up page: https://asarian-host.net/cgi-bin/signup.cgi
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well i’m not sure who , " we " is ? and it’s ok to be nervous especially if your expecting
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – X-No-Archive: yes Oh I realize that – I wasn’t asking for any advice – nor had I discussed a problem of mine. However, I get really nervous when we start expecting people to take our advice and adjust their life according to our expectations. My advice is often good, but I’m not expecting that kitty should take it or else. I have experienced talking to people in domestic violence situations for years before they leave. I don’t like doing that and its frustrating but I have come to learn that people leave when they need to leave and not before and I cannot determine for them when that time should be. I don’t dispense advice and then sit and tap my foot expecting that everyone is going to jump. Sometimes around here we tie everyone’s problems up in a little neatly wrapped bundle all solved – and then are amazed when they don’t go along with our program. I don’t think that we should expect that – I’m kinda thinking advice is to be given freely with no strings. if i had of been talking to you , i would’ve made it simpler to understand , but , since i wasn’t , i didn’t Where is it written that if someone gets advice – they then must take it. On whose time table does that work? I kind of want to know so I can judge that the next time I need advice. I’ll know whether to post about a given problem. I rarely post with the expectation that someone must take my advice or I’m going flame them or out them. What is that all about? and you did talk here , and you got good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and got more good advice , do you detect a small pattern , that may cause people to start , reacting differently to your talk — For more information about this NNTP posting service, contact: If you want an anonymous account, visit our sign-up page: https://asarian-host.net/cgi-bin/signup.cgi
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and you did talk here , and you got good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and got more good advice , do you detect a small pattern , that may cause people to start , reacting differently to your talk ?
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if i had of been talking to you , i would’ve made it simpler to understand , but , since i wasn’t , i didn’t
– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – X-No-Archive: yes Where is it written that if someone gets advice – they then must take it. On whose time table does that work? I kind of want to know so I can judge that the next time I need advice. I’ll know whether to post about a given problem. I rarely post with the expectation that someone must take my advice or I’m going flame them or out them. What is that all about? and you did talk here , and you got good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and you got more good advice , that you never took , and you talked more , and got more good advice , do you detect a small pattern , that may cause people to start , reacting differently to your talk ? — For more information about this NNTP posting service, contact: If you want an anonymous account, visit our sign-up page: https://asarian-host.net/cgi-bin/signup.cgi
