I JUST CAN'T TAKE THE CONSTANT OVER-THINKING….HELP!!!!
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….I AM PRETTY SURE IT IS OCD THAT I HAVE. WHEN I HAVE CHECKED ON THE INTERNET ABOUT OBSESSIBE THOUGHTS, THE EXPERTS SEEM TO FOCUS MOSTLY ON PEOPLE OBSESSING ABOUT CLEANLINESS, OR "BAD THOUGHTS", ETC. MY OBSESSIVE THOUGHT SITUATION IS QUITE DIFFERENT THAN ANYTHING LIKE THIS. I HAVE AN OVER-THINKNG OR OVER-ANALYZING PROBLEM. ABOUT A MONTH AGO, I WAS SIMPLY READING AN ARTICLE AND THE AUTHOR WAS STATING ABUT HOW A CERTAIN SEASIDE COMMUNITY HE LIVES IN IS GETTING OVER-CROWDED AND STUFF. AND THEN HE WROTE ABOUT HOW PEOPLE WOULD THINK HE WAS COMPLAINING, AND THEN WENT ON TO SAY THAT THE OPPOSITE OF LOVE WAS APATHY, AND THAT HIS COMPLAINING WAS COMING FROM A LOVE OF HIS COMMUNITY. ALL OF A SUDDEN, I STARTED OBSESSING OVER THIS PARAGRAPH THAT HE WROTE, AND PARSING THE WORDS IN IT IN MY HEAD, AND GOING OVER AND OVER AND OVER THE MEANNG BEHIND WHAT HE SAID, WITH RESPECT TO LOVE AND I WAS TRYING TO THINK OF EXACTLY WHAT ONE WOULD HATE AND HOW THAT WOULD MAKE ONE COMPLAIN, AND WHAT ONE WOULD THINK TO THEMSELF ABOUT HATING OR NOT HATING, ETC, ETC, ETC, EVEN THOUGH IT WAS PERFECTLY CLEAR TO ME EXACTLY WHAT HE MEANT. I JUST COULD NOT STOP OVER-THINKNG THE PARAGRAPH AND OVER-ANALYZING EVERY SINGLEPOSSIBLE THING THAT COULD BE CONSTRUED BY WHAT HE SAID. IT HAS GONE ON FOR ABOUT A MONTH NOW AND COMES AND GOES IN INTENSITY. I DO NOT KNOW WHAT THE HECK TO DO. I WANT TO STOP THINKING ABOUT THIS AND TO JUST LET IT GO AND I ABSOLUTELY CANNOT.
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im exactly the same i cant stop thinking about the same subject over and over its so scary i keep thinking about how the mind works and i cant answer the question but it wont stop coming sharon
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Eight years ago, I got hung up on a magazine article in Psychology Today describing characteristics of "happy" people. I was trying to improve my self-esteem. At the time I didn’t realize I had OCD or any sort of psychological disorder. Up to that time I had never seen a therapist before. The article mentioned happy people were more likely to be extroverted than introverted. I immediately reacted very negatively to that little passage. For several days I kept thinking, overthinking and overrationalizing about my personality and trying to solve the delimma of whether I was introverted or extroverted. I came to the conclusion that I was an introvert. It may sound ridiculous but I began emailing and calling therapist to find out whether it was possible to convert my personality to being an extrovert. They said no. Then I began to calm down and forget about the article. Life was back to normal for about 2 months, until that Psychology Today article came back to my head again. What bothered me was my thinking that I was not supposed to be happy if I’m an introvert. I began to become severely depressed at that point and lost my appetite. I wished I had never read those two lines in that article. My thoughts became so ridiculous and distorted that I was thinking about going on a protest against that magazine and doing speeches about boycotting Psycho Today. Then I began seeing therapists. I learned a lot about myself and the fact that I had an obsessing problem. I took Luvox for a couple of months. They gave me techniqes on distracting myself from ruminating about my obsessions. It worked. Soon my depression lifted and I began to live life normally again.
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D C wrote: > I HAVE AN OVER-THINKNG OR OVER-ANALYZING PROBLEM. ABOUT A MONTH AGO, I > WAS SIMPLY READING AN ARTICLE AND THE AUSTATING ABUT HOW A > CERTAIN SEASIDE COMMUNITY HE LIVES IN IS GETTING OVER-CROWDED AND STUFF. > AND THEN HE WROTE ABOUT HOW PEOPLE WOULD THINK HE WAS COMPLAINING, AND > THEN WENT ON TO SAY THAT THE OPPOSITE OF LOVE WAS APATHY, AND THAT HIS > COMPLAINING WAS COMING FROM A LOVE OF HIS COMMUNITY.
You might also want to check out the overfocused variant of ADD. It’s closely related to OCD, and in many cases overlaps. It’s generally characterized by extreme difficulty is switching tasks. Check out Amen’s sites: www.amenclinic.com and www.brainplace.com — MYTHOLOGY, n. The body of a primitive people’s beliefs concerning its origin, early history, heroes, deities and so forth, as distinguished from the true accounts which it invents later. -Ambrose Bierce, The Devil’s Dictionary.
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"Zorg" <m…@privacy.net> wrote in message
news:40f5c670$0$92636$ed2619ec@ptn-nntp-reader02.plus.net… > …best consult a doctor. Good luck.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Ah – yes that too. J
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D C wrote: > ….I AM PRETTY SURE IT IS OCD THAT I HAVE.
YES, YOU’RE PROBABLY RIGHT! …best consult a doctor. Good luck. Zorg
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Dear DC, Hi : ) Have you ever obsessed about anything else in this way or is this your first recognizable experience? I am what is considered pure-O. This pure-O term means that most of your OCD symptoms are purely obsessional. How much time do you spend a day obsessing? It really doesn’t matter what you’re obsessing about. Does it feel good when you first start to think about it and distressing when you can’t stop.? Even the ritual / repetative characteristics of OCD I do in my head. OCD has many different off-shoots ie. pure-O, body dysmorphic disorder, and torretts syndrome. there are others. If you find it this distresing, I suggest you make an appointment with a pdoc or your general physician and discuss the medications that are speciffically designated to treat OCD. These include Zoloft, Paxil, Effexor (I wouldn’t take this one unless I had to) and others. Also, cognative behavior therapy is/ can be an improtant part of treatment as well. You can’t fix this on your own. It is a brain disorder that does respond to treatment. I hope this helps you some. If you have any more questions please post them. We are all here for each other. A last note, I have obsessed about the dumbest things just like you have described here. You are not alone. It’s just OCD thoughts. Peace, Joanna "D C" <wunde…@webtv.net> wrote in message
news:15776-40F5B4E9-70@storefull-3191.bay.webtv.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> ….I AM PRETTY SURE IT IS OCD THAT I HAVE. > WHEN I HAVE CHECKED ON THE INTERNET ABOUT OBSESSIBE THOUGHTS, THE > EXPERTS SEEM TO FOCUS MOSTLY ON PEOPLE OBSESSING ABOUT CLEANLINESS, OR > "BAD THOUGHTS", ETC. > MY OBSESSIVE THOUGHT SITUATION IS QUITE DIFFERENT THAN ANYTHING LIKE > THIS. > I HAVE AN OVER-THINKNG OR OVER-ANALYZING PROBLEM. ABOUT A MONTH AGO, I > WAS SIMPLY READING AN ARTICLE AND THE AUTHOR WAS STATING ABUT HOW A > CERTAIN SEASIDE COMMUNITY HE LIVES IN IS GETTING OVER-CROWDED AND STUFF. > AND THEN HE WROTE ABOUT HOW PEOPLE WOULD THINK HE WAS COMPLAINING, AND > THEN WENT ON TO SAY THAT THE OPPOSITE OF LOVE WAS APATHY, AND THAT HIS > COMPLAINING WAS COMING FROM A LOVE OF HIS COMMUNITY. > ALL OF A SUDDEN, I STARTED OBSESSING OVER THIS PARAGRAPH THAT HE WROTE, > AND PARSING THE WORDS IN IT IN MY HEAD, AND GOING OVER AND OVER AND OVER > THE MEANNG BEHIND WHAT HE SAID, WITH RESPECT TO LOVE AND I WAS TRYING TO > THINK OF EXACTLY WHAT ONE WOULD HATE AND HOW THAT WOULD MAKE ONE > COMPLAIN, AND WHAT ONE WOULD THINK TO THEMSELF ABOUT HATING OR NOT > HATING, ETC, ETC, ETC, EVEN THOUGH IT WAS PERFECTLY CLEAR TO ME EXACTLY > WHAT HE MEANT. > I JUST COULD NOT STOP OVER-THINKNG THE PARAGRAPH AND OVER-ANALYZING > EVERY SINGLEPOSSIBLE THING THAT COULD BE CONSTRUED BY WHAT HE SAID. > IT HAS GONE ON FOR ABOUT A MONTH NOW AND COMES AND GOES IN INTENSITY. > I DO NOT KNOW WHAT THE HECK TO DO. > I WANT TO STOP THINKING ABOUT THIS AND TO JUST LET IT GO AND I > ABSOLUTELY CANNOT.
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Whatever it is, OCD or not it is clearly very distressing for you. I have pure ‘thought’ obsessions myself. Can I ask you if you anything like this before ? Is there a crisis going on in your life (apart from this) at the moment that might be putting extra strain on you ? Hang in there my friend, I know it is hard, but the intensity of obsessions do change over time. I do not take any medications, but there are plenty of people here who can point you in the right direction for medical advice. It might me useful to say which part of the world you live in. Take care J "D C" <wunde…@webtv.net> wrote in message
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